Posts Tagged kids

Date: June 25th, 2008
Cate: The Personal
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Deep Thinking

Such serious things my kiddos contemplate.

Sage got home from day camp and watched a Scooby Doo movie. After the movie, he turns to me and says, “Life is going by really fast. Soon I’ll be grown up. Then I’ll be a grandpa and then I’ll die. And I know what it feels like when you die. You feel nothing.”

He looked and sounded very serious. We talked about it for a while. The idea of “nothing” is not something that he has been raised to believe, so I am intrigued. Strange, the things he is imagining.

About ten minutes later, he asked me why people eat meat. He wanted to know if people needed to eat it to survive. He ended up crying because he felt bad about poisoning the ants in the front yard. (This was me, thirty years ago.)

We’ve had the meat conversation before. He’ll go a few days without eating meat and then cave and eat a pepperoni pizza. I don’t ever give him a hard time about it. We don’t eat a lot of meat in our house anyway, although, since this topic keeps coming up, I’m considering just going vegetarian so he won’t feel so conflicted. It’s not like I really like our factory farming system anyway…

It has felt serious around here lately.

Maybe this kid is going to be an activist.

Date: June 22nd, 2008
Cate: The House, The Personal, The Stuff
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Cleaning, Stencils, Being Mad, Cleaning

Really, if I had wanted stunning before and after pictures, I should have taken pictures of the apartment before and after cleaning it. I thought about it, but decided not to, because after all, you all don’t really have to know what a disgusting piglet I can be when it comes to housecleaning, right?

I did get a lot done, though, and there’s plenty more to do. I’ve got to finish painting Sage’s room before the people come to install the carpet. We talked about getting stencils and painting some things on the wall, but we both think these are way cooler.

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it’s at Etsy

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I’m partial to the jellyfish one, personally. Sage hasn’t decided yet. There are others I’d like for the living room. The thing is, these pieces of vinyl are flippin’ expensive! For example, the fish are $60.

I asked Sky what he wanted for his eighteenth birthday and he said books. I asked him to email me a list, and he did. It had about ten books on it, every single one of which had to do with LSD shit in some shape or fashion. Apparently, I have not gotten my point across about not liking that shit. Anyway, no books for Sky. I’m getting him something else that I think he’ll like better anyway.

On another note, after cleaning that dirty disgustingly filthy apartment, I’m determined to turn over a new leaf. This may involve hiring someone to come in every other week and clean, at least after school starts. We’ll see.